Pamela Anderson has split from her boyfriend-of-two-years, Adil Rami, and as is clear from her latest post, the breakup was nothing but heartbreaking and ugly.
“It’s hard to accept,” the supermodel wrote next to a black-and-white photo of her and the Marseille soccer star.
“The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life,” she continued. “He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ? But this is worse. He lied to all.”
Anderson, 51, said she spoke to the mother of Rami’s children, who told her they were still together and had been a family all along. Both she and Anderson were devastated to learn he’d allegedly been lying to both of them.
“How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others. He is the monster,” wrote Anderson.
Anderson continued to bash her ex — whom she said she had planned to marry.
“Narcissists don’t change. Sociopaths don’t change,” wrote the model. “I will run for my life – I have always fought for truth and justice. – this is my worst nightmare – I was not a very jealous person before I met him. I’m happy to know the truth. But it hurts like hell.”
She also voiced her sadness over the other woman’s anguish. Though she didn’t name any names, RadarOnline.com has learned Rami, 33, is a father to twins from his relationship with ex-lingerie model Sidonie Biemont.
“I’m glad I spoke to his ex. My God. He lied to her about all too. She’s also in shock and is very sad. It’s the evidence I needed to move on. He can’t hurt us more,” wrote Anderson.
Anderson said there were many red flags during her relationship with Rami, but she refused to see them. Apart from being paranoid and jealous whenever they were not together, he allegedly told he and his family controlled all the tabloids in France — and therefore, the information that leaked. It’s because of this that she had to share her story via Instagram, where he could not touch it.
“I felt many times his lies, his excuses. But we were together every day,” wrote Anderson.
She claimed that Rami became increasingly protective of her and forced her to cut ties with many of her friends who did not approve of him.
“Some knew all along,” wrote Anderson. “He has disappointed us all. My family. My sons. My friends.”
She said that one day Rami would tell her he wanted to marry her, and the next he’d but her through “physical and emotional torture.”
“He wanted to marry me? Meet my father. Love me for life? I’m devastated after talking to his ex girlfriend. Poor woman. The mother of his young sons,” continued the star.
Anderson said she tried to break up with Rami 10 times, and now, she finally has the confidence to say goodbye for good.
“I will leave France now,” she wrote. “He has tried all – He has sent flowers letters – I did not accept. He showed up to my hotel. Security took him away. I have a body guard because he scares me. He has hurt me and threatened me many times.”
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